One of the most exciting yet challenging phases of early parenthood is potty training. Let's face it, no one relishes the thought of changing diapers, especially when faced with a little one who's determined to resist! However, while the idea of having a potty-trained toddler may seem like a dream come true compared to dealing with poopy diapers, the actual training process can sometimes feel like an insurmountable mountain.
Don't fret, our favorite Mama Bears out there, because if you're approaching this major milestone, there are countless approaches that parents swear by. To ensure a smooth transition from diapers to big kid underwear, here is everything you need to know about what to expect and how to prepare your little one for this monumental step.
TIP #1: Look for the Signs Your Toddler Is Growing Out of Diapers
In the US, most children begin potty training when they are around 2 or 3 years old. By the time they reach 4 years old, the majority of kids are already proficient in using the toilet. However, it's essential to pay attention to your child's unique indicators and signs of readiness before embarking on the potty training journey. Here are some signs to keep an eye out for:
- They've passed the two-hour threshold. Great news! Your little one is becoming more independent in their potty journey. If you're noticing a decrease in the number of wet diapers and your toddler can go for at least two hours without needing a change during the day, it's a sure sign they are physically ready for that next stage.
- They are running a potty routine. If you notice your toddler has predictable bowel movements, such as right after breakfast or right before nap time, the transition away from diapers is more likely to be a breeze. By being aware of their poop schedule, you can guide them to the potty and patiently wait for nature's call. It's like having a little poop buddy, making the whole process a lot more enjoyable and less stressful for both of you!
- They legitimately want out of diapers. Potty time, anyone? If your little one is not quite ready to jump out of the diapers, don't force it! Look out for signs of them being captivated by the bathroom, the toilet, or even the fascination of wearing underwear. Pushing them to use the potty against their will might backfire and cause more harm than good in the long run. So let's wait for that magical moment when they're truly interested, shall we?
- They're aware of the discomfort of being in a soiled diaper. A soggy or soiled diaper will start to feel quite disagreeable for them. If you notice them tugging at their yucky diaper or even attempting to bid farewell to it completely, it's a promising indication that they're all set to embark on the potty adventure and bid adieu to diapers forever!
- They keep you in the loop when it's time to poop. When your little munchkin lets you know when they're dirtying their diaper, it shows that they're in tune with their body, which is a HUGE sign of being ready to potty train.
TIP #2: Bring on the Undies!
Want to make potty training an exciting adventure for your little one? How about making a fuss over getting some special big-kid underwear? Even if your toddler doesn't have skin sensitivity issues, they might not be too keen on switching if their underwear feels scratchy, tight, or just plain uncomfortable. That's why it's important to choose underwear made from extra soft, stretchy fabric that feels comfy from the very first try.
TIP #3: Choosing a Potty Seat is a Collaborative Effort
With so many potty seats to choose from, involving your little one in the decision-making process helps to make them feel super important and proud. They can go for their favorite color or even opt for a portable potty seat or a seat ladder that fits them perfectly on the regular bathroom toilet. And the best part? Besides getting them excited about using the potty, they might become more open to using a real toilet that they can flush. How cool is that?
TIP #4: Embrace Commando Mode
Let's be real, we can plan for potty training all we want, but nothing truly progresses until your toddler physically takes off the diaper. Let's make sure to incorporate some diaper-free time into their daily routine, whether it's going completely commando or wearing their new underwear.
This way, they can experience what it feels like to go without a diaper. And yes, accidents might happen, but we can view them as an opportunity to help them become more in tune with their body. It's also a good idea to have a potty nearby at all times so we can quickly and easily guide them onto it and give them a chance to finish their business.
TIP #5: Create a Potty Routine
When you first start potty training, try to have your little one sit on the toilet every 20 to 30 minutes. It might seem like a lot, and they might not have to go every time, but giving them the chance to use the potty creates that positive reinforcement that they need to physically sit on the toilet to use the bathroom. It also helps you figure out their routine where you might start to notice patterns. For example, maybe they tend to go pee 30 minutes after snack time or need to poop before they hit the hay. As time goes on, you can space out the potty breaks, and your child might even start telling you when they need to go before actually going!
TIP #6: Reinforce Everything with a Mountain of Praise
Gamifying the potty training process can be highly motivating for your little one, but don't underestimate the power of showering them with praise! There's nothing that brings more joy to a child than having a parent cheering them on. Encouragement and praise have the incredible ability to make your little one feel amazing about using the potty. And let's not forget, keeping the whole experience positive is key to preventing any feelings of discouragement. Potty training, like everything else in life, has its ups and downs, but fear not, our Mama Bears! You can always use positive words to show your toddler just how proud you are of them, no matter what.
Closing Thoughts
Potty training can be a breeze, but accidents are still bound to happen, especially during nap or bedtime. Don't worry, though. There's no one-size-fits-all approach to potty training. Do whatever suits your family best. If nighttime accidents stress you and your little one out, it's perfectly fine to let them wear a diaper while they sleep. Remember, setbacks can be disheartening, but don't fret: your little one won't be in diapers forever!
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